Sunday, March 01, 2009
Finally a new post! mwahaha joy joy joy!!
i do realise i've been sorely neglecting this blog plus i think my writing skills have deteriorated to the point i lack the confidence to write a coherent sentence.
Back to the topic, the other day BFF and I came to a surprising conclusion. Turns out that all our bickering and our general 'friendly' disagreements about almost everything in general came down to one simple fact. We look for characteristics our mothers have when if comes to best friends. Yea i know, i suppose it's better getting nagged at from your friend rather than your own mom. Maybe it's an ego thing. Or maybe it's the fact we strive familiarity. Or maybe i just love getting yelled at.
Point in fact, BFF1 loves organising. Actually, ALL my BFFs love organising, being emo retarded, and are pretty punctual. A perfect foil for my innate messiness and general day dreaming. Usually BFFs either end up yelling at me or end up cleaning my messes. Once, after BFF1 got so fed up, she ended up cleaning my room and my wardrobe.
Which is exactly what mother would do minus the yelling. Truth be told, i think on a subconscious level, we do look for a little of our moms in other people.
Why why why??Is it because of our innate need always look for the familiar?
I still haven't figured that out yet.
I suppose i do love being taken care of. =D
Plus i finally watched that "vampire love story with a human" movie the other day. Not the best vampire show i've seen ever. Come to think of it, the only think i remember was the flying around the woods. Well imbibed with wine i was. every 10 miniutes A and i were asking each other, 'Is he depressed...AGAIN?'
i suppose anti depressents don't work on vampires. Interview with the vampire still KICKS ASS!
i do realise i've been sorely neglecting this blog plus i think my writing skills have deteriorated to the point i lack the confidence to write a coherent sentence.
Back to the topic, the other day BFF and I came to a surprising conclusion. Turns out that all our bickering and our general 'friendly' disagreements about almost everything in general came down to one simple fact. We look for characteristics our mothers have when if comes to best friends. Yea i know, i suppose it's better getting nagged at from your friend rather than your own mom. Maybe it's an ego thing. Or maybe it's the fact we strive familiarity. Or maybe i just love getting yelled at.
Point in fact, BFF1 loves organising. Actually, ALL my BFFs love organising, being emo retarded, and are pretty punctual. A perfect foil for my innate messiness and general day dreaming. Usually BFFs either end up yelling at me or end up cleaning my messes. Once, after BFF1 got so fed up, she ended up cleaning my room and my wardrobe.
Which is exactly what mother would do minus the yelling. Truth be told, i think on a subconscious level, we do look for a little of our moms in other people.
Why why why??Is it because of our innate need always look for the familiar?
I still haven't figured that out yet.
I suppose i do love being taken care of. =D
Plus i finally watched that "vampire love story with a human" movie the other day. Not the best vampire show i've seen ever. Come to think of it, the only think i remember was the flying around the woods. Well imbibed with wine i was. every 10 miniutes A and i were asking each other, 'Is he depressed...AGAIN?'
i suppose anti depressents don't work on vampires. Interview with the vampire still KICKS ASS!
# posted by Addie @ 3:06 AM 
